Où étiez-vous avant ? Pour une défense sans sélectivité de la dignité (par Khady Ndoye)
Where were you when a woman was called a "stroke monkey"? Where were you when a female member of parliament was ridiculed for her fashion sense (blue on blue: you even made it a challenge)? Where were you when ordinary citizens were the target of mockery and public humiliation?
For the past few days, social media has been ablaze with comments from a former member of parliament mocking the hairstyle of a young female minister who could be the same age as her daughter or granddaughter. The indignation is legitimate. But it shouldn't be applied selectively.
It is said that God created humankind in His image. Yet, those who had no part in its creation or destiny feel entitled, every day, to judge, belittle, and humiliate their fellow human beings. Human dignity should not be defended out of opportunism, political affiliation, or following a trend. It should be protected at all times, regardless of who is involved.
It is often said that "man is born good, but society corrupts him." I believe, for my part, that human beings can choose to remain good. This requires a daily effort, a will to control one's impulses, and to prioritize respect over insult.
Philosophy teaches us the theory of the id, the ego, and the superego. Each of us carries within us thoughts that are sometimes unspeakable or hurtful. But the role of conscience, education, and values is precisely to contain them. We are not condemned to express everything that crosses our minds. We have a responsibility to choose our words and our actions.
The Senegalese public debate would benefit from a more elevated tone. Instead of focusing on the physical characteristics of our compatriots, let us examine the real challenges threatening our society: the drugs that are destroying our youth, education, employment, the protection of our children, and the future of our communities.
I have nothing against those who are defending the Minister of Sport today. On the contrary. I welcome any stance taken against personal attacks. But I urge everyone to show the same energy when others are victims of humiliation. Defending human dignity should not depend on the victim's identity.
Regarding this young minister, many emphasize her natural beauty. She is, in fact, a woman who embraces her appearance without artifice. But that's not the main point. Beyond her looks, many highlight her intelligence, her background, and the skills that have earned her the trust of the authorities. It is on these criteria that the debate should focus.
As for those who reduce others to their appearance, they often forget that the wounds inflicted by words can be deep. A person needs encouragement, support, and recognition far more than contempt or mockery.
Let us rise above this. Let us reject body-shaming, insults, and judgments based on physical appearance, regardless of who is targeted. Let us remind every human being that their existence is precious. The greatness of a society is also measured by its capacity to respect the dignity of each individual.
Because ultimately, true elegance is found neither in a hairstyle, nor in an outfit, nor in an appearance. It is found in the way we look at others and in the respect we show them.
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