Making love in the water: 4 essential precautions from a sexologist to avoid unpleasant surprises

A quintessential summer fantasy, making love in the sea, a lake, or a swimming pool seems wildly romantic, but often leads to disappointment for the most reckless. Risks of STIs, irritations from chlorine or salt, slips, and common misconceptions: sexologist Gilbert Bou Jaoudé shared his golden rules and practical advice with Madame Figaro magazine for combining pleasure, comfort, and aquatic safety without risking an accident.

Making love in the water appeals to many couples in the summer, but this practice requires some precautions to avoid unpleasant surprises. In an article published by Madame Figaro , Dr. Gilbert Bou Jaoudé, a sexologist and couples therapist, offers his essential advice for balancing pleasure and safety.

1. Protection is always mandatory

Contrary to popular belief, water does not protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or pregnancy. Therefore, condoms remain essential. Experts recommend putting them on on land before entering the water: this makes them easier to put on and prevents them from slipping if water gets between the latex and the skin.

2. Choose a place where you can stand

Whether at sea, in a swimming pool, or in a lake, choose a spot where you can keep your feet on solid ground. This precaution helps prevent fatigue, cramps, or unexpected slips, and eliminates any risk of accidents or drowning, especially at sea.

3. Never skip the lubricant

Water doesn't glide smoothly; on the contrary, it has a drying effect on the skin and mucous membranes. This effect is exacerbated by sea salt or pool chlorine, increasing the risk of severe irritation. It is strongly advised against using shower gel, sunscreen, or moisturizer as an alternative, as these products are highly irritating.

4. Rinse, dry and change your swimsuit after the act

Once you have finished, it is important to rinse with fresh water and dry yourself thoroughly to remove any chlorine, salt, or bacteria residue. Finally, quickly putting on dry clothes or a swimsuit helps prevent yeast infections and other vaginal infections.